To begin, find a quiet spot to spend time in prayer. Some people enjoy lighting a candle to signify a sacred conversation is about to begin. The place does not matter. Desire to connect with God, who is love, is the most important thing.

Open the Bible to any scripture of your choosing. Some people enjoy looking up the daily scripture that is being prayed in Church that day, across the universe. Others enjoy praying in proverbs, or the Psalms to begin their prayer. Wherever your heart is called is where you need to go in prayer.

It is helpful to read the scripture passage through one time. Then, read it again a second time slowly, listening for a word or a phase that stirs your heart. This is the Holy Spirit asking you to pay attention to this word or phrase.

Consider writing the word or phrase down in a prayer journal to solidify it in your heart and carry it with you throughout the day. Perhaps you will carry it with you as you go for a walk in nature.

Spend time in conversation with Christ, asking Him why He has stirred your heart with this word or phrase.

Listen to God’s wisdom being shared with you. I often refer to the receiving of God’s wisdom as “heart speak,” because there are usually no auditory words. Instead, there is a moment of deep understanding.

Close with a brief prayer of thanksgiving for the time spent together, or with an Our Father. Something within you has been beautifully transformed forever, as you gradually become all that God is calling you to be in the world, each according to your call.

A sacred friendship with Christ has started to grow. Nurture this growing desire with patience, trust, and faithfulness to daily prayer.